Devotional

Entertainment has never been more accessible. A television, phone, or tablet can provide an endless stream of movies, shows, short videos, news, games, and social media without ever reaching the bottom of the screen.

But having more to watch doesn’t necessarily mean families are better served by what they’re watching.

For many households, entertainment has become noisy in more ways than one. Programs compete for attention with faster pacing, stronger language, darker storylines, sexualized content, graphic imagery, and increasingly provocative themes. Algorithms encourage one more episode or video, while families can end an evening having consumed hours of media without feeling particularly rested, encouraged, or connected.

That raises a worthwhile question: Is it time to replace some of that noise with faith-based family media?

For Christian families, the answer may have less to do with watching less and more to do with choosing better.

What Does “Noisy Entertainment” Really Mean?

Noise isn’t necessarily about volume.

Media can be noisy when it constantly demands attention without giving anything meaningful in return. It can be entertainment built around shock, conflict, outrage, anxiety, or relentless stimulation. It can also be content filled with ideas and assumptions that compete with what parents are trying to teach their children.

Even material that isn’t overtly inappropriate can leave viewers feeling distracted or spiritually empty.

Philippians 4:8 gives Christians a useful standard for what deserves sustained attention, directing believers toward things that are true, noble, just, pure, lovely, and praiseworthy. That doesn’t mean every program needs to quote Scripture. But it does challenge families to think about what repeatedly occupies their minds.

Your Family’s Media Diet Matters

The phrase “media diet” is useful because entertainment has something in common with food: what is consumed occasionally matters less than what becomes normal.

One movie is unlikely to define a child’s worldview. Hundreds of hours of stories, characters, values, jokes, and messages over many years can have a much greater influence.

Children learn from stories. They notice which behaviors are rewarded, which relationships are celebrated, which beliefs are mocked, and what characters consider normal.

Adults aren’t immune either. Constant exposure to cynicism, fear, anger, or sexualized entertainment can gradually make those things feel ordinary.

Choosing faith-based media gives families an opportunity to put more spiritually nourishing material into that mix.

Replacing Is Often Easier Than Restricting

Parents can spend enormous energy saying no.

No, you can’t watch that show. No, that movie isn’t appropriate. No, we’re skipping this episode.

Boundaries are sometimes necessary, but they become much easier when there is also a good answer to, “What can we watch instead?” Faith-based streaming provides that replacement.

A family movie night could feature C.S. Lewis: The Most Reluctant Convert, opening conversations about doubt, reason, and conversion. A documentary such as The Listening Road can introduce thoughtful conversations about how people from different backgrounds think about faith. 7 Days in the Holy Land can help families visually connect places in Israel with biblical events.

The goal isn’t simply to remove entertainment. It is to replace some of it with stories and ideas worth carrying into the next day.

Faith-Based Media Can Start Conversations

One of the greatest advantages of watching Christian content together is what happens afterward. A program can naturally lead to questions that might otherwise feel forced:

• What would you have done?
• Why do you think that person responded that way?
• What does Scripture say about this?
• Do you agree with what was said?

Those conversations help turn viewing into family discipleship.

A documentary such as The Call, for example, can lead to discussion about the Great Commission and what evangelism looks like in ordinary Christian life. Way of the Master can prompt older children and adults to think about how they would talk about Jesus with someone who doesn’t share their beliefs.

The screen becomes the beginning of the conversation rather than the end of it.

Not Everything Has to Feel Like Bible Study

Replacing noisy entertainment with Christian media doesn’t mean turning every evening into a classroom. Families still need stories, laughter, discovery, music, and relaxation.

Faith-based media can include movies, animation, travel programs, interviews, biographies, documentaries, podcasts, and conversations. Some content teaches Scripture directly. Other programs simply tell compelling stories shaped by faith, courage, forgiveness, or hope.

That variety matters because healthy family media should still be enjoyable.

The distinction is that entertainment doesn’t need to undermine a family’s beliefs in order to hold its attention.

A Quieter Media Environment Can Help Families Slow Down

Another benefit of intentional viewing is simply reducing the constant demand for stimulation. Mainstream digital media often encourages viewers to keep going. Finish one episode and another begins automatically. Watch one short video and dozens more appear. Attention itself has become valuable currency.

Faith-based streaming can help families establish a different rhythm.

Choose one documentary. Watch a devotional together. Listen to a meaningful conversation. Then turn the television off and talk.

Programs such as Groundworks with Steve Wiggins are particularly suited to this approach because brief, Scripture-centered episodes can provide meaningful input without consuming an entire evening. Living Fearless with Andy and Hedieh can similarly encourage thoughtful conversation about faith and everyday challenges.

The objective isn’t to fill every available minute with Christian programming. It’s to make more intentional choices about which voices receive the family’s attention.

Parents Set the Tone

Children eventually make their own media choices. Before that happens, parents have an opportunity to model discernment. That includes more than policing what children watch. Kids also notice what their parents consume.

If adults spend hours immersed in angry commentary, dark entertainment, or endless scrolling while telling children to make healthier choices, the message can become confusing.

Christ-centered leadership in the home means asking the same questions of adult entertainment that parents ask about children’s programming.

• Is this helping or hurting?
• What is this normalizing?
• Is it worth the time being given to it?
• What could take its place?

Those questions can gradually reshape a family’s media habits without requiring an overnight purge of every mainstream platform.

Real Life Network Offers an Alternative

Real Life Network was created to provide a different kind of streaming environment.

Rather than placing biblical programming beside an enormous catalog of conflicting content, RLN carefully curates its library around Christian faith and biblical truth. Viewers can move between films, documentaries, podcasts, Bible teaching, cultural discussions, devotional programs, kids’ content, and live events without leaving that foundation.

That gives families something increasingly difficult to find in modern entertainment: a place where they can discover rather than constantly defend.

Parents still decide what fits the age and needs of their particular family. But the starting point is very different.

Replacing noisy entertainment doesn’t require rejecting technology, storytelling, or even every mainstream show. It means becoming more intentional about what receives a family’s limited time and attention.

Some entertainment merely fills a room. Better media can fill conversations, reinforce truth, encourage faith, and give families something meaningful to carry with them after the screen goes dark.

For Christian households, that makes faith-based family media more than an alternative. It can become one practical way to cultivate a home in which entertainment supports, rather than competes with, what matters most.

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Explore biblically curated movies, documentaries, family programs, devotionals, and more anytime on Real Life Network.

One morning, I was riding my bicycle along Washington, D.C.’s Anacostia River when an egret glided over the trail. The pure-white wading birds have always fascinated me with their elegant stillness and regal grace. They look even more impressive on the rare occasions when they spread their wings and take flight, making them look even larger. Yet this impromptu bird-watching experience came to an abrupt and discordant end. The moment before the egret swooped into the brush and out of sight, he made like a bomber and dropped a load of ordnance worthy of an animal twice his size.

A graceful bird, caught in its least graceful position.

The minor incident nearly passed out of my mind until I realized that this un-constipated egret provided an apt example for man’s complex condition. From beginning to end, mankind’s creation is the gift of God. We are created in God’s image and likeness, given dominion over every living thing, and blessed with the good command to fill the earth with God’s image-bearers through procreation (Genesis 1:26-28). Yet our first parents squandered these divine blessings through disobedience and rebellion, for which they were cast out of God’s presence (Genesis 3:22-23) and condemned to die (Genesis 2:17).

Man is a graceful bird, caught in his least graceful position.

Christianity’s nuanced view of human nature becomes incomprehensible without the first three chapters of Genesis. This is why so many human philosophies veer into error on either one side or the other. Most human philosophies boil down to the opinion that man is basically good, or that he is basically bad. Only the Bible (and those influenced by the Bible) can explain how man is created good, but corrupted.

Mankind’s complex condition affects every aspect of our lives, even the way we work. Before anything had tarnished God’s “very good” creation (Genesis 1:31), we read that “The Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to work it and keep it” (Genesis 2:15). Work is not a consequence of the fall, but a basic function of man, which God created for good. Adam’s task was merely to imitate God’s own example in creative effort (Genesis 2:9), and it carries religious undertones, as the same verbs are used to describe service at the tabernacle in Numbers 3.

However, mankind’s work did not escape the Fall unscathed. Not only was Adam cast out of the lush garden into uncultivated land, but God also declared, “cursed is the ground because of you; in pain you shall eat of it all the days of your life; thorns and thistles it shall bring forth for you; and you shall eat the plants of the field. By the sweat of your face you shall eat bread, till you return to the ground, for out of it you were taken; for you are dust, and to dust you shall return” (Genesis 3:17-19).

The ground was Adam’s domain of work. By extension, this curse extends to all arenas of work. All work is toilsome, demanding, and sometimes fleeting, as the whole creation is “subjected to futility” (Romans 8:20).

Man is a graceful bird, caught in his least graceful position.

Again, the Bible’s complex theology of work has better power to explain the different attitudes people have towards their work than the fractured, individualistic worldviews dominant in America today. Some people love their jobs, while some people hate them. Why? Can individualism or critical theory offer a satisfying answer to this question? (Critical theory would blame group oppression, but that is not satisfying.)

The Bible has an answer. Some people love their jobs because work is a gift from God — a good gift that God created as part of his blessing on mankind. Even in a fallen world, the wise preacher concludes, “There is nothing better for a person than that he should eat and drink and find enjoyment in his toil. This also, I saw, is from the hand of God” (Ecclesiastes 2:24, see also Ecclesiastes 5:18-19 and 9:9). Yet some people also hate their jobs because work is cursed after the Fall.

Man is a graceful bird, but he is still caught in his least graceful position.

The very unseemliness of the aforementioned egret’s evacuation is what makes it an appropriate metaphor for fallen man under sin. “We have all become like one who is unclean,” Isaiah confesses, “and all our righteous deeds are like a polluted garment” (Isaiah 64:6). We need one who can wash our filth away, to achieve for us what we could never achieve by our own works.

Even though work is good, it is not ultimate. The Lord God engaged in his creative work for six days, “and he rested on the seventh day from all his work that he had done” (Genesis 2:2). Just as man was made to imitate God’s work, so man was also supposed to imitate God’s rest (Exodus 20:8-11). But, under the curse of sin, that rest became fleeting and far off.

From the earliest generations, Adam’s descendants sought one who would restore them to God’s rest. Thus, Noah’s father Lamech said in hope, “Out of the ground that the Lord has cursed, this one shall bring us relief from our work and from the painful toil of our hands” (Genesis 5:29). Yet Noah did not bring an end to toil, hard labor, or the futility of human industry. Nor did Moses, Joshua, David, or any human leader called by God throughout history. All were sinners, after all.

Yet painful toil under the curse is not man’s final condition, for “there remains a Sabbath rest for the people of God” (Hebrews 4:9). Those who are forgiven of their sins by the blood of Christ receive true grace. They are not only restored to right fellowship with God, but they also receive eternal life and enter into God’s rest.

For now, we recognize that all honest work is good. “In all toil there is profit, but mere talk tends only to poverty” (Proverbs 14:23). “Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need” (Ephesians 4:28). “It is the hard-working farmer who ought to have the first share of the crops” (2 Timothy 2:6). But work is not ultimate, and one day our painful toil will come to an end.

Man is a graceful bird, and one day his graceless condition will be remedied in full. One day, those who are in Christ will enter into the glory and rest of their Redeemer.

This article was originally written by Joshua Arnold and published on The Washington Stand. For more content like this, visit Real Life Network.

In August 2026, Massachusetts Governor Maura Healey signed the Prioritizing Patient Access to Care Act, removing the state's remaining gestational limits on abortion and giving health care providers broader discretion to perform the procedure later in pregnancy without legal consequence. The room applauded. Hard
to believe, I know. Massachusetts now stands alongside nine other states and the District of Columbia in permitting abortion up to the moment of birth.

Healey framed the law as protection for families facing devastating medical news late in pregnancy, and as a shield against a more restrictive national climate. But protection is not the word for it. What this law actually does is strip away the last legal limit on when a child's life can be ended — clearing the way for abortion up to the very moment of birth. Pro-life advocates have rightly called this what it is: the United States is now one of only a handful of countries on earth with no gestational limit on abortion whatsoever, and laws like this one expose late-term children, who can feel pain, who can survive outside the womb, to the most violent procedures medicine performs.

An entire room stood and applauded that.

There's something our culture rarely talks about, something this signing makes impossible to ignore: the faces we can see. The lives that are here.

I'm talking about the people who survived abortion attempts.

For decades, abortion in America has largely been discussed through politics, court decisions, and ideology. But behind all of that — there are human beings. And some of those human beings survived.

They are alive today. They have names, stories, families, and voices. You can look into their eyes and hear them tell you what happened. And that changes the conversation. Because suddenly abortion isn’t theoretical or abstract. It’s personal.

There are documented cases of babies surviving abortion procedures in the United States. Survivor organizations have worked to bring visibility to those stories. Survivors have spoken publicly about living with physical injuries, emotional trauma, and the lifelong reality of knowing someone once tried to end their life before they were even born.

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One of the most well-known survivors is Melissa Ohden, who survived a saline infusion abortion and has spent years speaking publicly about her experience and advocating for the born alive.

And even actor Sylvester Stallone spoke recently about being told by his mother that an attempted abortion failed before he was born. He has stated that his mother told him, "The only reason you're here is because the hanger didn't work.

Think about that for a moment. These are not "hypotheticals." These are people. People who laugh. Who love. Who contribute to the world. People made in the image of God.

And Scripture could not be clearer about the value of life.

Psalm 139 says: "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in mymother's womb."

And Jeremiah 1:5 says: "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you."

That means human worth is not determined by circumstance. Not by convenience. And not by whether a life was planned, expected, or even wanted by others.

Value comes from God. Because God is the author of life.

And when we hear the stories of abortion survivors, we are forced to confront a reality our culture often tries to avoid: What happens when the child survives? What happens when the life everyone was told would never matter... is standing right in front of us? With a face, a voice, and a testimony?

And maybe that is why these stories are so powerful. Because they remind us that every life carries purpose. Every life — not some, not only the easy or convenient lives. Every life.

Now I also know this conversation touches a deep pain for many people. There are women — and men — who carry grief, regret, and wounds connected to abortion. And the Christian message is not that forgiveness is impossible. It’s the opposite. There is grace through Christ. There is healing through God. And there is most assuredly
redemption at the cross.

But truth still matters. And the truth is that these survivors exist. They are living proof that what is in the womb is not potential life. It is life.

Make Your Life Count

There are moments when we are reminded just how fragile life really is. Hearing the voices of people who survived abortion attempts, looking into the faces of people who were never expected to live — it changes something. It forces us to remember that every single life carries value.

Not because society assigns it value, or because government recognizes it. And not because culture approves of it. But because God created it.

Every life.

And maybe that's the deeper message in all of this. Not just that life should be protected — although it absolutely should. But that life should mean something. That our lives should count for something greater than ourselves.

Ephesians 2:10 tells us: "For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them."

Think about that. Prepared beforehand. That means your life is not random. It is not accidental. And it is never without purpose. Not the child in the womb, the struggling mother, or the survivor whose story seemed impossible. Not you.

We are told that we were created for good works — that we have nothing to do with — God already prepared those good works for us before we were even born. All we need do is to walk in them.

God wastes nothing.

And the truth is, none of us knows how long we've been given here. But we do get to decide what we do with the time we have.

Will we use our lives to protect what is vulnerable? To stand for truth when it's unpopular? To bring light into places that have grown dark? Will we make our lives count and walk in good works?

Because one day, titles won't matter. Politics won't matter. Fame won't matter. What will matter is whether we lived with courage, loved well, stood firmly in truth, and whether we pointed people toward God.

That is a life that counts.

And maybe the people who survived what should have taken their lives understand that better than most. Because when someone survives what should have taken their life, they tend to understand something very deeply: life is a gift. A sacred gift. And gifts from God are never meant to be wasted.

So wherever you are today — whatever your story may be — remember this: you were created on purpose. By God. For a purpose. Because of that we should commit to live courageously, stand faithfully, and love boldly. And dedicated in love to the One who created you to make your life count.

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This subject was explored in depth on an episode of Rose Unplugged on Real Life Network; “Choice is a Person”.

Streaming was supposed to make entertainment easier. Instead, many Christian families now find themselves spending more time filtering, previewing, skipping, and explaining what appears on their screens.

Popular mainstream platforms still offer plenty of enjoyable programming, but the overall viewing environment has changed. Libraries are larger, mature content is easier to encounter, and shows often reflect values that do not align with a biblical worldview.

As a result, some Christian families are reconsidering where they spend their viewing time and turning toward faith-based streaming platforms instead.

The shift is not simply about avoiding bad content. For many families, it is about choosing something better.

1. Parents Are Tired of Constantly Filtering Content

One of the biggest frustrations with mainstream streaming is the amount of supervision it can require.

Parents may need to research a movie before watching it, check content ratings, monitor recommendations, or keep the remote nearby in case something unexpected appears. Even children’s profiles and parental controls cannot always eliminate questionable themes, previews, or suggestions.

Christian streaming platforms reduce much of that friction by curating the library before content reaches the viewer.

At Real Life Network, programs are intentionally selected by a team of Christians committed to biblical truth. Content is evaluated not simply for whether it is technically “clean,” but for whether its overall message aligns with Scripture.

For parents, that means less time policing and more confidence in what the family chooses to watch.

2. Families Want Content That Does More Than Avoid Objectionable Material

There is an important difference between content that is merely harmless and content that is genuinely helpful.

A movie can contain no profanity or explicit sexuality and still offer very little that strengthens faith, character, or family life. Many Christian families are beginning to ask a different question:

Instead of simply avoiding what is harmful, what if the family watched more content that actively reinforces what matters?

Faith-based streaming gives families access to Bible teaching, Christian documentaries, testimonies, apologetics, devotionals, and programs built around truth, courage, forgiveness, evangelism, and spiritual growth.

That turns screen time into an opportunity rather than simply a neutral activity.

3. Parents Are Becoming More Concerned About Worldview

Every story says something about what is true, valuable, admirable, or worth pursuing.

Sometimes those messages are obvious. Often they are subtle.

A show may communicate assumptions about relationships, human identity, authority, morality, success, or the purpose of life without ever stating them directly. When those assumptions appear repeatedly, they can gradually influence how viewers understand the world.

Christian parents increasingly recognize that media is one of the many forces shaping their children’s worldview.

Faith-based platforms offer a more consistent foundation. Whether viewers are watching a documentary, listening to a podcast, or enjoying a family program, the content is selected with biblical truth in mind.

That consistency can help reinforce what children are already learning through Scripture, church, and discipleship at home.

4. Families Want More Shared Viewing

Mainstream streaming can easily separate a household into individual screens. One child watches one series, another watches something completely different, and parents have their own shows.

Christian streaming can create more opportunities to watch together.

A documentary can lead to a conversation about faith. A Bible program can prompt questions from children. A testimony can introduce discussions about courage, suffering, or God’s faithfulness.

Real Life Network includes programming across a wide range of interests and ages, from films and documentaries to Bible teaching, cultural discussions, podcasts, and family content. Programs such as The Listening Road, The Call, and So True with Philip De Courcy give families different ways to engage with faith-centered stories and teaching without relying on the same type of programming every night.

The value is not simply what happens on the screen. It is what can happen after the screen goes dark.

5. Families Want Their Media Habits to Support Discipleship

Most Christian parents would never expect television to disciple their children. But media inevitably participates in formation.

What a family repeatedly watches affects conversations, attitudes, interests, and expectations.

That is why some households are intentionally redirecting a portion of their entertainment time toward content that supports spiritual growth.

A Christian streaming platform can make it easier to build small discipleship rhythms into ordinary life. A short devotional can become part of breakfast. A podcast can play during a road trip. A documentary can become the focus of a family evening. A teaching program can help an older teen wrestle with a difficult biblical question.

Streaming does not replace prayer, Scripture, church, or parental leadership. But it can either compete with those things or help reinforce them. Families increasingly want the latter.

6. They Want a Streaming Environment They Can Trust

Perhaps the biggest difference is not one individual program. It is the environment surrounding it.

On a mainstream platform, family-friendly programming sits alongside mature entertainment, conflicting worldviews, and content designed for entirely different audiences. Algorithms, thumbnails, and recommendations can move viewers quickly from one category to another.

A Christian platform begins with a different assumption: The entire environment should serve the viewer well.

Real Life Network is built around that idea. Its library is curated for biblical integrity, and programs that stray from that standard are not included simply because most of their content is good.

That creates something increasingly valuable in modern media: trust.

Parents still have an important role in deciding what is appropriate for each child and age level, but they are starting from a much stronger foundation.

Choosing Better Rather Than Simply Watching Less

Leaving or reducing time on mainstream platforms does not necessarily mean rejecting every secular movie or television show. Christian families will make different decisions about what they watch.

The larger shift is toward intentionality.

Instead of allowing algorithms to determine what fills the home, families can decide what deserves their attention. Instead of constantly asking, “Is this okay to watch?” they can also ask, “Is there something better we could be watching?”

That is where Christian streaming offers a compelling alternative.

Families can enjoy entertainment while also discovering content that encourages faith, strengthens biblical understanding, and creates opportunities for meaningful conversation.

For Christian households trying to lead their homes with greater purpose, changing streaming habits can be a small decision with a lasting influence.

Explore biblically curated movies, programs, documentaries, and teaching anytime on Real Life Network.

These reflections first aired as part of an episode of Rose Unplugged on Real Life Network.

I've been doing a lot of thinking lately about how my life and responsibilities have changed. In a good way. A very good way. Maybe it's because I'm a grandmother now. Watching my son and daughter-in- law with their toddler has a way of pulling me backward and forward at the same time. It's made me think about my early days as a mom and the joys and challenges that came with that responsibility. And let's be honest, parenting really is the best job in the world… but it is also a very intense job.

And I've been thinking about the difference — the very real difference — between moms and dads. In fact, this is exactly what they're meant to do — be different. When a man lays his head down on the pillow at night, he's out. Just like that. He sleeps, he gets up, and he goes back out the next day to care for his family in his own steady way.

But when women lay their heads down at night? Our minds are still running. It takes us a while to fall asleep. Because every single day, as a mom, you are carrying around more information than anybody else on the planet. You know exactly where your child is. You know his schedule by heart. You know he has study hall sixth period. You know what he's going to have for lunch — not just today, but tomorrow. You know the school lunch menu better than the cafeteria does.

Moms know how to handle doctor's appointments. We know how to get them seen when they're sick. We know what soothes our children, what worries them, and what they're not saying out loud. Why? Because we're moms. And that's the job. But I also know the men in our audience — they are there, engaged. They work hard. That's why families work best when both roles are honored.When strong families are built intentionally.

And thinking about that strong family unit brought back a memory for me. Years ago, when my son was about five, I wrote a letter to my dad. I don't remember every word, but I remember the heart behind it. Even then, I understood that while Mom was holding the details of our days together, Dad was the foundation.

I remember going fishing with him. I don't remember if we caught a single fish — but I remember the ham and capicola sandwich, and the cold can of Coke we packed for lunch. I remember how excited I was to just have that time alone with him. I remember the sacrifices. I remember the day he had to sell the car he loved when the steel mills began shutting down in Pittsburgh. He owned a design business that had worked with many of them, and when that industry faltered, so did his livelihood.

After he sold the car, I can still see him counting the cash out on the table. I think he sensed how badly we felt watching him give up something he really enjoyed. So, he suddenly tossed the money into the air, just to make us laugh. I was sad for him — but relieved when he did that. He did what he had to do for us. And because he was a resilient man, he redirected, rebuilt, and his business thrived until the day he retired.

Aristotle explained: “A multitude of great events if they turn out well will make life happier … while if they turn out ill, they crush and maim happiness … Yet even in these — nobility shines through, when a man bears with resignation many great misfortunes, not through insensibility to pain but through nobility and greatness of soul.”

I remember hard moments, too. Sitting in the front seat as he drove me to the hospital after I fell down a hill. I was crying, asking if I was going to die. Yeah — I was always dramatic. Dad answered with such calm assurance — even though I could see the worry in his eyes. And that's the thing about fatherhood. So much of its impact is quiet. You don't always see it in the moment — you feel it later, when you realize how much of what steadied you was simply someone showing up day after day.

And there's another memory that shaped me just as deeply. I remember sitting at my mother's bedside as she was dying from non-Hodgkin's lymphoma. I was the oldest of four — all of us rather young; heck, she was young. Only 48 years old. I told her I was so sorry for all the trouble I caused her as a teenager — and let me tell you, I caused plenty. I was rebellious, strong- headed, and well — a bit wild.

Do you know what she said to me? She said, “Do you think I don't know how teenagers are?” That moment was grace. It was forgiveness without a lecture. It was a salve to my spirit. And what's remarkable is that years later, as I was parenting a teenager myself, I heard her words again — steadying me, softening me, reminding me what love looks like in hard seasons. Because parenting is a long game. I remember when my own five-year-old once said, “I don't like you, Mom,” after I had to discipline him. It hurt. But then I thought about my parents. And I realized something — children don't always understand love in the moment. But they remember it over time.

I remember far more now than I did then. And I honestly believe I wouldn't have the joy, the home, the fulfillment I have today without my parents — and without God's faithfulness woven through it all. That's what I want to dig into here — the mother's heart, the father's role, and the strength of the family unit. There is a poem written by Maureen Hawkins called The Miracle of Life, and there's a line I read while I was pregnant that has never left me: “Before you were conceived, I wanted you. Before you were born, I loved you. Before you were here an hour, I would die for you. This is the miracle of life.”

It truly is the miracle of life — a truth every mother recognizes, deep in her bones, long before she ever has the words for it. While preparing for my show on parenting, I was reminded of Jochebed — Moses' mother. She's mentioned only briefly in Scripture, yet her obedience and courage changed history. Her love didn't just save a child — it contributed to leading a nation out of slavery.

There was a new king of Egypt who didn't have the relationship with Joseph that the previous king had. As a result, over time the Israelites were no longer favored guests in their land. The Pharaoh began to imagine them as the enemy, and as a people to be feared should they rise or join forces against Egypt. Out of fear and growing hatred of the Israelites, Pharaoh first enslaves them then commands the death of male children. Exodus 1:15-21 reads: “The king of Egypt said to the Hebrew midwives, whose names were Shiphrah and Puah, ‘When you are helping the Hebrew women during childbirth on the delivery stool, if you see that the baby is a boy, kill him; but if it is a girl, let her live.’”

The midwives couldn't bring themselves to obey Pharaoh's command. When they were questioned, they answered with remarkable courage and wisdom. They said in their defense that the Hebrew women gave birth so quickly the babies were already born before the midwives arrived. I love that. Very clever. You must admire their boldness — their cleverness, their reverence for life, and their fear of God. And Scripture tells us that God honored their faithfulness by blessing them with families of their own.

During the time that Jochebed gave birth to her son Moses, Pharaoh ordered all Hebrew boys thrown into the Nile. So, she hid her baby for three months. When she could no longer keep him safe, she did the unthinkable — she placed him in a waterproof basket and set him among the reeds. Can you imagine the heaviness of her heart? Keeping him meant certain danger. Letting him go meant uncertainty. But one choice offered a chance at life. That's what mothers do — risk everything for their children.

God honored that trust. Moses was discovered by Pharaoh's daughter, and through Jochebed's daughter Miriam's quick thinking, Jochebed was chosen to nurse her own son — was even paid to do so. God allowed Moses to be loved by both his biological mother and his adoptive mother. What compassion. What grace. Especially towards Jochebed.

Moses is remembered for leading a nation out of bondage. But behind that story is a mother who trusted God with what she loved most. Jochebed's story is really a story of surrender. Of trusting God to take an impossible situation and turn it into something miraculous. I remember the day Iplaced my fears for my son into God's hands.

I had given my son my very best. I raised him up in the way he should go, I loved him, sacrificed for him. But there comes a moment when we must do what Jochebed did. We must entrust our children to the One who loves them even more than we do. I remember telling God: I love my son so much — but however much I love him I realize that my love cannot possibly compare to the love that you have for him.

Setting our children free to be what God intended them to be is, at some point in their lives, the right thing to do — the only thing to do. Setting our children free to become who God created them to be isn’t easy — but it is right. And like Jochebed, that act of trust becomes part of our own story too.

I began with a quote about a mother's love. But it also echoes the heart of God toward each of us: “Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you; before you were born, I set you apart.”

Women — we must trust our child's life to the One who gives life. And that same God still holds our children — and us — in His hands.

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Christians often treat God’s sovereignty and human responsibility like two truths that can’t occupy the same room. One feels safe and comforting. The other feels heavy and demanding. But Scripture refuses to let us choose between them.

In one sense, we love the comfort of knowing He is in control. In another sense, we love knowing that we have free will to make choices. If we aren’t careful, especially in regards to thinking through God’s sovereignty in all things, a risky question may arise, gripping the conscience: If God is truly sovereign, does what I do actually matter? That tension is real, and avoiding it doesn’t make it go away.

If you’re a believer, chances are you already understand that the God of the universe is, in fact, sovereign. That truth is tremendously beautiful and a deep comfort. Yet it can also feel nerve wracking when we begin asking honest questions about human responsibility — about the real roles we play in living out our faith. Rather than avoiding the tension, let’s tackle it head-on. Together, let’s pursue the clarity Scripture actually gives us, instead of letting confusion and uncertainty divide us or keep us from bearing fruit where we otherwise could.

Throughout the whole Bible we see God’s ultimate sovereignty over the affairs of His creation. Throughout the whole Bible we also see that what we do really does matter — for better or for worse. Rather than surveying every example, I want to focus on one analogy the Apostle Paul himself used:

“Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it. Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable. So I do not run aimlessly; I do not box as one beating the air. But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified” (1 Corinthians 9:24-27).

The race is a theme that surfaces again and again in Scripture. And here is what I find striking: if we are called to run a race and to endure to the end, does that not indicate that we bear great and real responsibility for whether or not we cross the finish line? I don’t think the answer is as simple as either extreme could make it — or perhaps it’s even more simple than anyone is willing to admit.

When we understand this analogy rightly, we have to hold two truths at once. On the one hand, running is hard, and it is something we must choose to do. Even after we choose it, we know how exhausting it is. If we’re honest, many of us stop to walk, take extended breaks, or even find ourselves wandering off the course — not always eagerly sticking to the straight and narrow.

Yet in terms of human responsibility and our call to run with endurance, I firmly believe running is far more mental than it is physical. When I ran cross country, I was fit enough to keep going, but I would consistently want to stop and walk, genuinely thinking it wouldn’t cost me much. Little did I know, however, that an act as small as walking to catch my breath was stopping me from ever learning how to — and believing that I could — run for long periods of time without stopping to walk.

As I was instructed, the very nature of walking is not the same as running. They are two different forms with two different effects on the body. When I first started, I didn’t need to learn how to move my arms or legs. Before anything else, I needed to train my mind not to quit. Even if I had to run as slow as a snail, simply by keeping the form I eventually discovered I could run much longer than I thought possible, and that I could even enjoy it! With time, the more I refused to stop and walk, the more quickly I progressed in speed as I ran.

One thing bled into another, but it all began with where my mind was — removing the mental block that insisted I had no other choice than to walk.

For the Christian, the mental blocks we must remove are many: anxieties, grievances, financial hardship, loneliness. The list is essentially endless. Thankfully, the Bible doesn’t leave us staring at the obstacles but gives us better things to set our minds on. I encourage you to find your verse — the one that steadies your heart and keeps you running. Mine is Acts 20:24: “But I do not account my life of any value nor as precious to myself, if only I may finish my course and the ministry that I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify to the gospel of the grace of God.”

So yes, there is real responsibility we bear in running this race and running it well. But here is the truth I most want to drive home: none of us would be able to run this race at all without the God of the universe by our side. It is He who paved the way through the death and resurrection of His Son. He is the One who brought us out of spiritual death and into spiritual life. He is the One who supplies the strength. He gives purpose to trials and hope amid suffering. He is the One who made the finish line exist and who made crossing it possible. Better yet, the race He calls us to run is not one He is asking us to win by our own effort. Why? Because it has already been won. Christ Himself declared, “It is finished.” He stands in victory across the finish line, seated at the right hand of God the Father.

In this race, God is the one who sustains and guides us. Even when we wander, He leaves the 99 to bring us home. When we cheat and break the rules, He is ready with mercy, grace, and forgiveness. When we grow weary, He spurs us on and gives us rest. Even when the race takes us through high waters, He has promised we will not drown. Not even the fires of adversity will consume us. When we stumble, He doesn’t leave us in the dust but He picks us back up onto our feet. Unlike any other race, this God — and the people with whom we co-labor — run with us, hand in hand, step by step.

And so, together, with each step we “press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:14). And the end goal, according to 2 Timothy 4:7, is simple. All of us who believe long to be able to say, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.”

Christ is waiting for us with open arms. May we be able to say that we have finished the race — yet it will be He who says, “Well done, good and faithful servant.” Until that day, may we never lose hope and never allow our faith to wither. May we run well, with endurance and with joy, knowing that “they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint” (Isaiah 40:31).

This article was originally written by Sarah Holliday and published on The Washington Stand. For more content like this, visit Real Life Network.